[ The tears just continue to drip down her face, but she doesn't fight it, although her eyes still try to look away in shame. ]
All I could think about was how... I was the one who kept pushing him. And all that time he's had someone he truly wanted to be with. And I knew, but-- I never knew just how much.
I figured... now, while it's not considered dating... I should let him go.
I didn't want to be cruel or hurt anyone but-- I still did it anyway. And I won't say I regret it. Because... I meant everything I said in that message. Even if it hurts me to no end... I want him to be able to have that. Aidios knows he won't take everything he deserves. So if he could only have one... I wanted it to be the person who he loved most.
You're letting your lack of confidence cloud your judgement. Is Ordine really someone who would do anything he didn't want to do? He's not. You know he's not.
You need to stop doing that, though. [she frowns, though her eyes remain kind and patient.] "Letting him go" You're making it sound like being with you is a prison sentence. And though you don't mean it, that's what I mean by arrogance and unkindness, to him and to you. Being with you isn't something people put up with doing. They're here because they want to be. You dictate how they should be feeling without regard for their actual emotions. It isn't fair. Nobody said he "could only have one", and by trying to end things, you're perpetuating the very thing that you mean to prevent: not giving him everything he deserves so very, very much by denying him happiness with you. Because you're worthwhile to him.
I know he doesn't feel that way about you--that you're something to endure--but he has his own silliness about you in this which is why he was going to leave the matter as it is, even if that's not at all what he wants.
[ It's a low bar but she can say that honestly at least. ]
If it were only dating, that would be entirely different. I don't expect special treatment, and I don't expect to be anyone's one and only. But... marriage is something different entirely. And when you have us... who couldn't even figure out if we were dating in the first place...
How can I keep trying to ask him for a part of him he's already reluctant to give, against his vows? I... I just don't know.
[ She buries her face in her hands a laughs at herself derisively. ]
...or maybe I'm just a coward who's terrified to know how he really feels. If I ended it before he could... then I didn't have to face the risk of hearing it from him first.
If it weren't for you, I'd be halfway through a pint of ice cream by now with my eyes so puffy and useless I could barely see. [ More seriously-- ] I'd be really sad and lonely. And I'd try to take it all on myself, saying this is all my mess and no one else's.
And while maybe that's true, you still go out of your way without making me feel like a burden.
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I can't look you in the eyes like this.
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her eyes are very fond.
she kisses her cheeks her nose and forehead]
You were still just doing what you thought was right, but I don't want to see you suffer, especially when you can have all the happiness you deserve.
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[ The tears just continue to drip down her face, but she doesn't fight it, although her eyes still try to look away in shame. ]
All I could think about was how... I was the one who kept pushing him. And all that time he's had someone he truly wanted to be with. And I knew, but-- I never knew just how much.
I figured... now, while it's not considered dating... I should let him go.
I didn't want to be cruel or hurt anyone but-- I still did it anyway. And I won't say I regret it. Because... I meant everything I said in that message. Even if it hurts me to no end... I want him to be able to have that. Aidios knows he won't take everything he deserves. So if he could only have one... I wanted it to be the person who he loved most.
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You need to stop doing that, though. [she frowns, though her eyes remain kind and patient.] "Letting him go" You're making it sound like being with you is a prison sentence. And though you don't mean it, that's what I mean by arrogance and unkindness, to him and to you. Being with you isn't something people put up with doing. They're here because they want to be. You dictate how they should be feeling without regard for their actual emotions. It isn't fair. Nobody said he "could only have one", and by trying to end things, you're perpetuating the very thing that you mean to prevent: not giving him everything he deserves so very, very much by denying him happiness with you. Because you're worthwhile to him.
I know he doesn't feel that way about you--that you're something to endure--but he has his own silliness about you in this which is why he was going to leave the matter as it is, even if that's not at all what he wants.
Because what he wants is you.
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[ It's a low bar but she can say that honestly at least. ]
If it were only dating, that would be entirely different. I don't expect special treatment, and I don't expect to be anyone's one and only. But... marriage is something different entirely. And when you have us... who couldn't even figure out if we were dating in the first place...
How can I keep trying to ask him for a part of him he's already reluctant to give, against his vows? I... I just don't know.
[ She buries her face in her hands a laughs at herself derisively. ]
...or maybe I'm just a coward who's terrified to know how he really feels. If I ended it before he could... then I didn't have to face the risk of hearing it from him first.
I'm pathetic...
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[hug time? hug time!]
It's a lot to navigate, but you can and you should. You're not asking him to betray anyone.
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[But. Slowly, she returns the hug, albeit a bit weakly.]
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[TIGHTENS HER HOLD!!! and pets her hair.]
You two need to talk when you're ready to. But he wants to.
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[She bites her lip; anxious and maybe... a little hopeful.]
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[ But she will try to clean her face up a little. ]
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[lily helps to wipe her tears, more of a show of affection and support than being terribly effective. she can wash her face later.]
Yeah. We'll stay together for a while and ponder the logistics later.
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...thank you. For everything. I can’t put into words what it—- what you—- mean to me.
[ But there’s one thing she didn’t say earlier that deserves saying at least once. ]
“I wish to spend the rest of my days—- as many as I have—- with the three people I love most. With Ordine, Phoenix and Lily.”
...that’s the wish I couldn’t bring myself to say earlier.
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[swoops her up suddenly and carries her to the bed where she will be the little spoon. we cuddlin now]
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[ Scooped!! and Gently clinging. Once they're cuddled together, she lets herself relax a little, scooting up against Lily's side. ]
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This will be scary, but I know you can do it. I'm proud of you.
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[ Serenity tilts her head up so she can kiss Lily properly; feather light and loving. ]
...thank you. Truly. I don't know what I'd do without you.
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You'd be fine, really, you're smart and capable.
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And while maybe that's true, you still go out of your way without making me feel like a burden.
...I'd be just as devastated if I ever lost you.